Remembering
Bea Arthur
EA
ARTHUR was
one tough lady—a result, no doubt, of growing up in segregated
Cambridge, Maryland, where she deflected anti-Semitic taunts in high
school with imitations of Mae West. No wonder she was voted wittiest
girl in class.
Director Gene Saks found out how tough she can be
when they married in 1950. He lived with that one tough lady for 29
years, before throwing in the towel.
"It lasted so long," I told him, "that it certainly
wasn’t your typical Hollywood marriage."
"No," he said, "but it broke up in Hollywood."
At a Hollywood press conference to promote The Golden
Girls, NBC’s top comedy series that ran from 1985-92, Estelle
Getty found out how acerbic Bea can be. Estelle played Bea’s
80-year-old mother, and we reporters wondered how she made herself look
that old so effortlessly.
"Not with makeup," Estelle insisted. "It’s done with
acting."
"Oh, come on!" Bea interjected. "What’s that acting you
sprayed on your hair?"
Estelle died last July at age 84. Bea died of cancer at
age 86 on Saturday, April 25, in Los Angeles.
Bea was born in New York as Bernice Frankel, the
second of three girls, to Rebecca and Phillip Frankel. The
family moved to the southern town of Cambridge where the father opened a
women’s clothing store. Bea worked as a medical laboratory technician.
She left because she had stars in her eyes—she had a vision of a life on
stage, not in a hospital.
She brought her deep, powerful voice to New York where
she enrolled in the New School’s Dramatic Workshop. Classmates included
Marlon Brando, Harry Belafonte, Tony Curtis, Walter Matthau,
Rod Steiger and Gene Saks who was destined to become one of
Broadway’s most prominent directors (Mame, Rags, Lost in Yonkers).
Bea impressed with her gravelly voice in Kurt Weill’s
Threepenny Opera (1954) and scored with comedy in Shoestring
Revue (1955). She played Yenta the matchmaker in Fiddler on the
Roof (1964) and earned a Tony Award as Angela Lansbury’s best
friend in Mame (1966) which was directed by her husband, Gene
Saks.
Producer-director Norman Lear hired Bea for a
guest shot in 1971 on TV’s highly acclaimed All in the Family.
Bea, that one tough lady, played an outspoken, aggressive Maude who
proved a match to the foul-mouthed bigot, Archie Bunker.
That spurred Lear to create a new comedy series,
Maude, as a star vehicle for Bea, earning her an Emmy in 1977.
Saks became her second husband in 1950. They adopted two
sons,