Justice John Leventhal, Brooklyn D.A. Charles Hynes and Rabbi Joseph Potasnik | Geraldine Ferraro and Rabbi Diana Manber | DAYENU New Initiative Helps In Domestic Violence Story and Photos by Tim Boxer LINED UP New York State Supreme Court Justice John M. Leventhal and New York Board of Rabbis executive vice president Rabbi Joseph Potasnik for a picture, and Charles Hynes insisted, "I want to be the goy in the middle." Who am I to argue with the Brooklyn DA? The three were among 37 men (and 101 women) at the inaugural Voices of Valor Luncheon of Dayenu at the Mutual of America boardroom on Park Avenue. Dayenu ("enough for us") is a domestic violence initiative of the Board of Rabbis that was founded three years ago by Rabbi Diana Manber. Justice Leventhal accepted the group’s Elijah Award from the DA and observed, "You know that Elijah went to heaven alive. Does this award indicate that my time has come?" The judge was accompanied by his mother. "She’s 91, maybe 93. Who knows? She lies." Geraldine Ferraro said the Miriam Award she received from Dayenu was appropriately named. Ferraro was compelled to leave Hillary Clinton’s presidential campaign after she told a newspaper that "if Barak Obama was a white man, he would not be in this position" (of a presidential candidate). In accepting the Miriam Award, Ferraro compared herself to Moses’ sister. "Just as my statement about the son of a Kenyan man caused controversy, so too did Miriam’s observation about Moses marrying a Cushite [black woman] prove contentious." | Hynes revealed that he grew up in a home where his mother was abused. "No child should be forced to watch that," he said. "We all agree that it is extremely important to restore sholom bayis [domestic tranquility]." Geraldine Ferraro, 72, the only woman ever nominated for vice president, on the Democratic ticket in 1984, said abuse of children in the church was silenced too long. "Then it came out in the open. I am a church-going Catholic and I’ve never been more angry and disgusted. I wish Dayenu can be duplicated across the nation." "Domestic violence happens in every community, no matter how wealthy or how observant," Rabbi Manber said. "Enough silence – it’s time to speak out." "We’ve been guilty too long," Rabbi Potasnik agreed. "The rabbis were silent. Now we are ready to rectify the injustices." Dominic Carter, NY-1 TV’s political reporter, said this issue is very personal. He grew up 40 years ago in a New York housing project where domestic violence was no stranger at home. Carter, who served as emcee at the luncheon, has something in common with Rabbi Potasnik. Carter’s daughter and Potasnik’s son Harrison are students at Syracuse University. So Carter gave the rabbi a Syracuse basketball T-shirt. "This tee cost me $84,000," the rabbi sighed. |